Practicing Curiosity

“Don’t ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive, and go do that. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.”—Howard Thurman

Lately, I’ve been asking myself three questions:

• What adds meaning to my life right now?

• What am I ready to release?

• What am I ready to receive?

These questions are deceptively simple, but sitting with them has stirred something deeper in me—especially in the midst of a season of so many changes.

Recently, I moved to a new state. New home. New rhythms. New Mexico. The landscape here feels like it’s breathing differently, and I find myself slowing down, listening more. There’s space—not just on my calendar, but in my spirit. The wide open skies feel like an invitation to not just live, but to listen—to what’s shifting, to what’s calling me forward.

And yet—it’s also been challenging. There have been moments of feeling overwhelmed. But even in those spaces, I’ve grown. Choosing a growth mindset over a fixed one has been essential.

Instead of asking, Why is this so hard? I’ve been asking, What is this teaching me? Every challenge has stretched me in meaningful ways. And through it all, I’ve been practicing curiosity.

Curiosity is freedom from judgment. It’s letting go of needing all the answers. It’s approaching each day—and each feeling—with a spirit of wonder rather than critique.

As I unpacked boxes in my new home, I also began unpacking my inner life. I let go of things that didn’t fit who I am becoming—objects that had long outlived their meaning, routines that no longer served me, assumptions about how life should look. In their place, I kept what brings me joy, holds memory, or stirs hope. That process wasn’t just about shelves and drawers—it was about soul space.

I’m also shifting my work to a private coaching practice only. After working with hundreds of clients, I’ll now be working 1:1 with a limited number of clients who are navigating transition, seeking purpose, or simply wanting to live with more clarity and intention.

I’m particularly drawn to conversations around aging, identity beyond roles and titles, and the courage it takes to grow at any stage of life. I’m doing this work in my own life—and I’d be honored to walk alongside others doing the same.

What adds meaning to my life right now? It’s connection—with new people and long-standing friends. It’s physical movement. It’s learning, exploring, laughing. It’s allowing my life to be more about presence than performance.

What am I ready to release? The need to prove. The story that says change equals loss. I’m letting go of the pressure to know what’s next, trusting instead that clarity grows from action.

What am I ready to receive? Quiet joy. Time to appreciate “awe” moments. Community. Surprise. I’m learning to receive without apologizing or over-explaining. I’m open to possibility.

If you’re reading this and feel a tug in your own life, I invite you to pause and ask:

• What adds meaning to your life right now?

• What are you ready to release?

• And what are you ready to receive?

I’d love to hear your answers. And if this reflection resonates, please share it with someone else who might be standing at a new threshold, too. You can visit my services page to learn more or simply reach out to connect.

As always, I’m holding close my favorite question: What’s possible from here?

With curiosity and gratitude,

Linda